Its all about patience

One of my closest friends is getting married to her long term boyfriend after being together for 8 years. You can only imagine what they gone through together. This is a rare case I might say. Only a handfull of people get to spend the rest of their life with there first love or with their one and only love. And many people wonder if it possible. Ofcourse. It depends on the type of person who you choose to spend the rest of your life with. If that person can tolerate your clumsiness or your nervous breakdowns from time to time he/she is the one for you. I wish my girl the best of luck in every step she takes.

Just a thought

I dont know about anyone else but I feel that during Ramazan the atmosphere seems more pleasant. And the fact that the roads are quiet with less people making noices on the street. For a person who likes peace and quietness what more could you ask for. And right now its raining "himafodhu vaarey" which is a really nice scene to watch.

Sumthing about me

Whats your middle name?
I don’t have one

How big is your bed?
Big enough to fit me

What are you listening to right now?
My niece knocking on the door

What are the last 4 digits in your cellphone number?
Yea rite :P

What was the last thing you ate?
Chocolate biscuit pudding (only 2 spoons, I swear)

Last person you hugged?
My nephew??

How is the weather right now?
Rainy

Who was the last person you talked to on the phone?
My baby

What is the first thing u notice in the opposite sex?
Personality (ahem …looks too)

Favorite type of Food.
Sea food

Do you want children?
Ofcourse

Hair color?
Black

Eye colour?
Dark Brown

Do you wear contacts/glasses?
Used to, had the sexy nerd look going ;)

Favorite holiday?
Thursday night

Have you ever cried over a boy?
Everyone does at some point of there lives.

Last Movie you Watched?
City of Angels (had to watch it one more time after 12 years)

What books are you reading?
Alchemist and the Guardian started both but no time

Piercings?
Ears

Favorite Movie?
Ps. I love You

Previously on "Ramazan"

@ HOME
In usual days i would come home around 330-400pm and help around the kitchen even though when i come home most of the food is prepared since my mom wakes up early and she starts her work around 1000. Since i live in one big house which is distributed to 5 of my mom's sisters we exchange what we prepared every day, its our tradition.
At the time to break fast we all squeeze into one table. Even the little guys who are too young to fast join us. BTW I live with my mom, dad, my brother, my sister, bro in law,2 nieces so guess how hectic its gonna be. But i enjoy it. It brings people together after a busy day.

@CLASS
Last ramazan I was doing my first semester and i would go to classes from 930-1100pm. Back then the we were the newbies and the senior batch had a lot to talk about in the class. We would sit their "anga matcha nagaigen" and thinking that its unfair that majority of the students are a senior batch and they are kinda "foni" about it. Most wouldn’t even talk to us. But when our time came to be the senior batch, we actually got along with the junior batch and actually made friends with them based on the past experience.

@Lonely times.
Did i forget to mention that last roadhamas i was dating my ex at that time. The relationship was kinda coming to an end. He only came to my place 2 or 3 times the whole month and my mom and sis keeps asking me where the hell he is and why isn’t he coming. What can i say? He was out with his friends o going out to coffee's with other girls. He took me for granted. After coming from clases i would just lie down on the sofa watch some TV and go to bed. And wake up and go to office. I would walk to office while fasting and became really stressed out and unfit that one day i fainted luckily i reached the sitting room. My little niece and my elder bro made a joke about it calling me "Raas Tas" yea like the wataniya advertsement where they showed some one fainting, i think its the fishermen.

@ RAMAZAN BREAK FASTS
Ocean Breeze: I went to Ocean Breeze restaurant with my best friends. we got a good table with a sea view. We actually went there early. One of my best friends has a baby girl. Yea she is one sweet kid. She was showing dhoni's out side calling "moodhu car" cute right? I also showed her a dhoni and accidently called out loud "sea car" yea it sounded weird and became a joke amongst my friends.

Aioli: I like the ambience of the place. A very cozy feeling. The food was quite nice and remember savoring on the cheese cake. We went their for the office roadha veelun and also to say farewell to 2 of our colleagues.

West Park: Not a big fan of west park but we couldn’t get any other place to fit all our class mates. And yea that was the day i had my first chat with my love. He decided to sit my group of friends. I found out he is quite a nice guy with good manners and also thought he was kinda cute. And after we finished me and my friend decided to walk home but another classmate who has been eyeing me for a long time offered me a ride. I saw the look on my love's face at that moment he looked "kada vefa" and i knew he had a thing for me from that moment. Any who, we said no and me and my friend left home.

Wish i could be there..........

My best of friends are currently having a vacation at Singapore. But i didn’t go because i had to cut classes and also because I want to take leave for more important things later on this year. We have planned this trip a lot of times but were unable to go. I was talking about this to a colleague of mine and he said that remember that everything happens for good plus you get to save more for your higher studies, i also keep thinking like that. So in conclusion I hope I get the chance of going some place nice with my friends when timings are right.

Hard work pays off

Dear readers, today i got my abe exams results and yes i passed all subjects with good results. Insha Allah. I thank Allah and my loved ones since I alone couldnt have done it. Here is a post i wrote on 6 July excatly one month before the day of my results. At that time i was quite insecure about what i have done in my exams so here it goes.


"Everyone expect good things out of life. And with my personal experience things just dont happen that easily. Nothing is handed down. Like getting a job from the organisationation you have dreamed to work with or getting the guy of your dreams or getting good results in an exam.I had to work hard on each of the above. And what i have found most amazing is that the more closer you get to GOD, your prayers get answered only hard work is not just enough.So my dear friends, never give up on your dreams.

Sometimes its amazing how people who really doesnt work hard enough get it for free just like that and they dont know what they have got and make a mess out of the good things they have. You see these spoiled rich kids go into drugs, party hard and really not pay attention to whats really important in life yet in the end they get chance to work in the best organisations and do nothing and go to best univertsities and just keep changing their courses or just go their to socialise. What kind of life is that. Spending their parents hard earned money and just lazing off"

Got to go my friends iam really happy :)

Cox we're living in a material world

For guys it would be huge cars, flat screen TVs and video games and for girls it would be clothes and jewelries. Yes you have to admit that we are living in an material world. No matter how high the inflation goes up nor how costly goods and services have become we still have the enough courage to buy the things that we crave for.

When most of were young we didn’t have many options on toys we just accept what was given to us and we just share with our siblings nor did we bargain for more. We were happy with what we got. But when we start to earn a living we start buying all this stuff we couldn’t have when we were young as if we are trying to relive our childhood and do the things we couldn’t do at those times. Can you blame us?

I’m not saying that you should spend all of your allowances for materialistic possessions and I am not making fun of people who save all of their cash for later.
Well mostly because i was one of them until when the time came that i realized no matter how much you save your money you are never satisfied.

You should reward your self somtimes by buying something that gives you happiness even though amount of satisfaction you get from the goods that you brought decreases with time. And to avoid the guilt of spoiling your self too much try to make other people happy by providing them with what they want. To tell you the truth it is more satisfying than spending it on your self.

An update

I just breaked my fast an hour ago feel so tired and sleepy. My day went quite boring.
My supervisor was kinda nice to me when i got back to office after taking one day leave. Most probably feeling guilty of sumthing. Any ways ramazan is getting so near i dont know the working hours yet anyhow my day will begin around 9 and upto 11pm ill be busey cox after returning home from work while guys rest us girls have to prepare the food and after they eat we have to clean up their mess, im not complaining but things got to change its time for guys to help us around this is 21st century. I have to attend classes from 930-1100 during night so no time for going out for shopping or anything during ramazan. BTW i need to get ready to go to class. My new semester had started but "adhi kiyevumaa gayaa nuveigen" as my other class mates would say. Bye for now

Strong yet weak

Just because they are strong it doesn’t mean they don’t need the love and affection like a normal person does. When you say they can deal with it by their selves your letting someone be alone when they need you the most even though they might not admit it. But always believe that stronger people exist for a reason, which is to help and guide the weaker ones. But don’t forget that in order for them to be strong they need the help of others. Even the bravest person becomes weak at times.